Did you know there is something called Laughter Yoga? I
didn’t until today, but just the thought of it made me laugh! I guess I just was trying to visualize…somehow
yoga and laughing doesn’t seem to go together…I think of meditation and
yoga…deep breathing and yoga…or maybe the game Twister...that is a form of yoga many of us are familiar with...you twist and contort in all kinds of strange and unusual positions...trying not to get too close...you don't want to end up with your face too close to someone else's booty...then you fall on each other and laugh your heads off! Ummm...I don't think that is what they had in mind at Laughter Yoga International!
I have discovered that laughter really can help to heal a
wounded soul. I am not sure why Laughter
Yoga would be necessary or is actually more beneficial than just laughing on
your own. The reason it might
be beneficial is because you create laughter with others and you are allowing
yourself time to be silly. Sadly enough,
we don’t take time to do things if we don’t make time for it…that could even
include laughter. My vote is to forgo the the Laughter Yoga and play Twister instead!
Brad Wilcox said, “Humor helps. Humor heals. In fact, many medical studies have linked
laughter with better physical and mental health. Such studies confirm the scripture that
states, “A merry heart doeth good like a medicine” (Prov. 17:22). Humor allows
us to view our lives in a more positive light, deal with personal conflicts and
intolerance, and cope with trials and frustrations that might otherwise seem
overwhelming. As we are told in Ecclesiastes, there is “a time to laugh” (Eccl.
3:4 ).”
We
all encounter things that seem ugly, inconvenient, even unbearable. We change
what we can, but sometimes we simply have to accept and cope with unpleasant
circumstances. Humor can be a helpful coping tool.
After
Art E. Berg was thrown from an automobile during a rollover just five weeks
before his wedding date, his neck was broken, and at the age of 21 he was left
a quadriplegic. Although his body no longer serves him as it once did and he is
confined to a wheelchair, Brother Berg is far from being helpless and
depressed. He has learned to depend upon the Spirit of the Lord and draw upon
his own incredible will to overcome. He now lives a life full of service,
activity, and accomplishment. What got him through? Among other things, Brother
Berg says peace came from learning to laugh again, particularly with his
family. He writes, “I am not sure I would have survived the emotional trauma of
my injuries and the complications of my new life if it hadn’t been for the wit,
chuckles, laughs, and good-natured humor of my wife and family.”
Abraham Lincoln struggled with bouts of depression and used humor as therapy. His ability to laugh at himself was revealed during a political debate in which his opponent called him “two-faced.” Lincoln replied, “I leave it to my audience. If I had another face, do you think I’d wear this one?”–If We Can Laugh at It, We Can Live with It, Ensign, Mar 2000.
Abraham Lincoln struggled with bouts of depression and used humor as therapy. His ability to laugh at himself was revealed during a political debate in which his opponent called him “two-faced.” Lincoln replied, “I leave it to my audience. If I had another face, do you think I’d wear this one?”–If We Can Laugh at It, We Can Live with It, Ensign, Mar 2000.
Gary
K. Palmer said, “I have learned that the ability to laugh at everyday family
difficulties helps keep life in perspective. If we will learn to laugh and play
more with our families, not only will we feel better but so will they. “A merry
heart doeth good like a medicine,” says Proverbs 17:22. Studies show that humor and laughter help
people live longer, happier lives; be more creative and productive; and have
more energy with less physical discomfort.
Humor reduces stress,
fear, intimidation, embarrassment, and anger.
Laughter also has extraordinary healing power. When a person laughs, blood pressure
decreases, heart rate and respiration increase, the body releases endorphins,
and depression declines. After the
laughter subsides and you relax again, that good feeling has a lasting effect,
even until the next day. Not many medicines will do that.
On
average, children laugh 400 times a day, while adults laugh about 15 times. Why
the gap? Did we lose something? Have we forgotten the way we used to be? Why is
it that children seem to cope with life’s oddities better than adults? Perhaps
it’s because they do not fully understand. But I think it’s simpler than
that—they laugh. As we grow older, we get far too serious. Watch children play.
They don’t need expensive toys to entertain them. Everything is fun. They are
spontaneous. Only when we become adults do we start to get boring. Do we need
to cultivate a different attitude? Humor is in the way we see things, the way
we think. It’s an attitude, not an event. Perhaps the key lies in becoming more
childlike.
I
think laughter is more important than a family vacation because it’s always
available and it’s free. Vacations are not. Big family events and vacations are
wonderful, but these will not replace the daily humor and laughter in a home.
Laughter is like getting away without going away. It gives you a break.
Laughter
improves communication and builds relationships because everyone laughs in the
same language. Your children will remember your humor much longer than they
will the things you buy them. Children are more receptive when they are having
fun. Laughter helps us remember. And we remember what we feel”-The Power of Laughter, Ensign,
Sept. 2007.
Paul knew how to laugh…I can
hear his laugh now. He was always trying
to make others smile. Laughter was
something that helped us through some really tough times.
Have
you ever noticed laughter is like yawning--it is contagious! Sometimes you start to laugh because you hear
someone else laugh. You may not even be
sure why you are laughing.
This
blog post was prompted by a quote a friend sent to me, “Laughter
is the brush that sweeps away the cobwebs of your heart. Seven days without
laughter makes one weak.” ― Mort Walker
Cobwebs are threads of spider webs covered with accumulated
dirt and dust. In essence, a cobweb is a
snare--something that traps or entangles.
If the prey that has become entangled in the cobweb doesn’t get free, it
will eventually die, because either the spider will come and get it (don’t need
gory details here) or it will die because of starvation.
If we allow cobwebs to entangle our heart, it will
eventually destroy us. The cobwebs can
be sorrow, anger, hate, self-pity, holding grudges, selfishness, etc.
In addition to laughter as one of the bristles, I also see
that prayer, scripture study, service, and gratitude are bristles on the brush
that helps to sweep away the cobwebs from our hearts. These are the key things that have helped and
are continuing to help me survive. They
are keeping the cobwebs away!
Brushes only work well if all the bristles are in
place. If you have bristles that are
missing in sections on the brush, it is not as effective while using it. While you may remove some of the cobweb, some
may be left behind. The part that is
left behind can keep you entangled to a degree.
I can feel when some of the bristles on my brush are missing…then I know
it is time to replace the bristles…make sure they are all there!
I say it’s time for a good laugh!
A song to make you smile!
Love this! My son laughs at just about everything and it's hilarious how just looking at a blank screen can set him off into a fit of giggles. Thanks for this post. It was something I really needed today :)
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